HONORING THE MEN WE CHERISH: 10 THOUGHTFUL WAYS TO SHOW APPRECIATION

When it comes to celebrating the men who make a difference in our lives, sometimes the smallest gestures have the biggest impact. Every November 19th is a day set aside to celebrate International Men’s Day, a day to recognize and appreciate the men who bring strength, kindness, and resilience to our lives.

It’s also a time to reflect on the challenges men face, from health issues to societal expectations. Whether it’s a father, brother, friend, or partner, showing appreciation doesn’t need a grand occasion. It could be a quiet evening with a favorite meal, a personalized note sharing heartfelt memories, or a thoughtfully curated gift that shows just how well you know them.

This year, more people are embracing the idea of celebrating men with unique, memorable experiences—like a customized day out, a skill-building workshop, or even a day free from responsibilities, just for them to unwind. These thoughtful acts not only make them feel valued but also create lasting memories, reinforcing the bonds that make our relationships special.

In a world that’s constantly moving, taking a moment to pause and celebrate those we cherish reminds us of the important role gratitude plays in our lives. Sometimes, it’s not about finding the perfect gift but rather about making sure the people we appreciate feel seen, understood, and loved.

In Nigeria, where economic pressures can be particularly tough, taking the time to celebrate the men in our lives and make them feel valued and special is more important than ever. Here are ten meaningful ways to honor the men who matter to you.

1. SHOW GENUINE APPRECIATION

Sometimes, it’s the simple things that mean the most. Take a moment to write a note or make a call to let the men in your life know how much they mean to you. Think about a specific moment when they were there for you or something unique they bring to your life, and share it. It’s amazing how much a little gratitude can brighten someone’s day.

2. SPREAD THE WORD ON MEN’S HEALTH

Men’s health issues like prostate cancer, mental health, and heart disease don’t always get the attention they deserve. Why not share some helpful resources or host a small talk about these topics? Even organizing a group check-up day with friends or family can be a simple but impactful way to support each other’s health.

3. CREATE SPACE FOR REAL CONVERSATIONS

Many men find it tough to talk about what’s really going on in their lives. Why not create a relaxed setting where they feel free to share? Whether it’s a casual coffee chat or a guys' night where the focus is on openness, giving men a space to connect can be incredibly valuable.

4. CELEBRATE A ROLE MODEL

Who’s a man you admire—maybe in your community or family? Give him a shoutout on social media or even throw a small get-together to recognize his contributions. Whether he’s an inspiring coach, a dedicated teacher, or a caring father, honoring him can encourage others too.

5. VOLUNTEER TOGETHER

Sometimes, the best way to celebrate is by giving back. Find a local charity or community event, and invite some men in your life to join you. It could be a cleanup project, a food drive, or helping at a shelter. There’s something powerful about coming together to make a difference.

6. SHARE STORIES OF INSPIRATION

This International Men’s Day, take a moment to share stories about inspiring men—whether they’re historical figures, public role models, or unsung heroes in your own life. Hearing about others’ journeys can motivate and uplift, while also highlighting positive male role models.

7. SUPPORT MENTAL HEALTH INITIATIVES

Men’s mental health needs more attention, and International Men’s Day is the perfect time to support this cause. Consider donating to a mental health organization, sharing information about counseling services, or even checking in with friends. Sometimes, a simple “How are you really doing?” can open a door.

8. PLAN A DAY OF RELAXATION

Many men don’t get enough downtime. Plan a day of relaxation for your partner, dad, or brother—whatever they’d enjoy, whether that’s a golf day, a gaming night, or a simple evening of their favorite movies. Remind them that self-care isn’t just okay; it’s essential.

9. ENCOURAGE A NEW SKILL OR HOBBY

Is there something a guy in your life has always wanted to try, like cooking, photography, or even yoga? Encouraging them to explore new skills or hobbies is a fun way to celebrate. Maybe sign up for a class together or gift them some tools to get started.

10. BRING FAMILY AND FRIENDS TOGETHER

Family and community are the heart of what makes life fulfilling. Organize a gathering where family, friends, and loved ones can come together, share a meal, and just enjoy each other’s company. Celebrate the bonds that make us all stronger and remind men how loved and valued they are.

International Men’s Day is a chance to uplift, support, and celebrate men in all their roles. Despite Nigeria’s current economic challenges, making the men in our lives feel appreciated, valued, and special can have a lasting impact. Choose a way to mark the day that feels right to you, and enjoy making it meaningful for the men who matter.