... As She Reflects on Her Years in Service, Her Passion for Alaga Traditions, and the Joy of Family Life
A veteran gospel singer with six albums to her name, she also has over 12 years of experience as a respected Alaga Iduro/Ijoko — blending tradition, spirituality, and culture in ceremonial engagements. Add to that her unwavering love for Arsenal FC, and she truly embodies a rare mix of grace, grit, and God’s favour.
In this exclusive conversation with Princess Adeola Shittu, she reflects on her extraordinary journey at 67 — and how she continues to live a life driven by passion, discipline, and divine purpose.
While at First High School, Ondo, I was selected to represent the Western State in volleyball. After the state was split in 1976, I moved to Akure and represented Ondo State. I was later invited to represent Nigeria in volleyball.
As the only child of my mother, I had a lot of attention. Although I was pampered, my mother was a disciplinarian. Unlike my father who pampered me, she would always say, “Don’t think because I had you late that I will spoil you.” She prepared me for life. May her soul rest in peace.
I’ve been a church choir member since my primary school days and I still sing at CAC Oke-Gangan, Akure.
albums. I balanced it well and it never interfered with my job.Which of your albums brought you to the limelight?All my albums helped. But I also received overwhelming support from families and clients. One client once rejected another performer and insisted I should sing at his event. He said he loved my voice, my stage presence, and the way I sing. I had performed at his father’s burial, and when his mother passed, he and his siblings unanimously agreed that I should return.How long have you been singing?I started in the church choir during primary school, but professionally, I’ve been singing for over 30 years.
Mention some of your albumsI have six albums: my first album was Millennium Album (cassette era), followed by Omo Ni De, Yes I Know, Sing Aloud Vol. 1 & 2 and Ope T’o Si (released in December)Any plans for collaboration with other artists?Yes, I’ve done a few already and I’m open to more.How long has your band been with you?About 30 years. Many of them joined me when they were in secondary school. We’ve been together for decades. Even if I travel abroad, they can handle a performance without me.In a short word, will you say your retirement been filled with engagements?Yes o! And the most important part has been the omugwo (grandchild care). I travel a lot to help my children, and my career hasn't suffered because of it.Are you fulfilled?If I say I’m not fulfilled, I’d be denying God. I am completely fulfilled. My children and in-laws love and celebrate me. During my last birthday, their tributes made me emotional. I constantly pray for them. One of my daughters once said, “If you want to see the other side of my mum, touch any of her children or in-laws.” They are my world and my joy. Even in retirement, God is using them to bless me.
You recently celebrated your 67th birthday. How do you feel, and what’s the secret behind your flawless look?
(Laughs) Thank you! Honestly, I feel deeply grateful. It’s not by power or might, but purely by the grace of God. Turning 67 is a gift I don’t take for granted. I’m healthy, happy, fulfilled, and surrounded by love — and that alone is a blessing.
As for my look, I’ll say it’s God first. Then again, it comes from peace of mind, contentment, and living a purposeful life. I don’t stress unnecessarily. I stay active, eat well, laugh often, sing, pray — and of course, I never miss my sports, especially watching my club, Arsenal. (Smiles) Those are my beauty secrets: simple, godly, and true.
And I make sure to carry myself with grace. I believe every woman, regardless of age, should take care of herself inside and out. Age is just a number — it’s your spirit that must stay young.
At 67, do you have any regrets?
Honestly, I don’t live in regret. Life isn’t perfect, but I’ve come to see every experience — whether good or painful — as part of God’s divine script for my life.
There were sacrifices and hard moments, yes, but I’ve gained far more than I’ve lost. I choose to count my blessings, not my mistakes. I’m grateful for where God has brought me, for the grace to keep going, and for the joy that fills my heart today.
Are any of your children following in your footsteps?Yes. One of my sons is a footballer, another plays basketball and sponsors a basketball league across the Southwest. My first son is a graphic designer and one of the best in his field. My first daughter is into music and Alaga like me. She is also a lecturer in Abeokuta, Ogun State. One time, we had two events in different locations on the same day. I sent her to one and attended the other. The feedback I received from her event was outstanding — they even said she was better than me! (laughs)
My last born is a prophetess. Another daughter is into cooking. She runs a food business abroad — selling Moi-Moi, stews, and other African dishes. She proudly says she took her culinary skills from me. I cook well and still cook for my own events. I even cooked for my last birthday myself. Even my boys are great chefs.
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